BETTER LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE PLANNING TO LOVE ANYONE

BETTER LOVE YOURSELF BEFORE PLANNING TO LOVE ANYONE

Treat yourself as another person and do what you do to love others! Soon you would develop feelings for this person, and before you know it, you would fall in mad love with the most amazing, beautiful and intelligent being on this planet, YOU ❤️

Look into the mirror and see your beauty
Just stand in front of the mirror. Look at you, all happy and blushing. Shuffle your hair, make a V sign from your right hand and say, Yo! Everything is perfect. You are beautiful. Your inner self, which is your prized possession, is emanating a glorious glow adding icing on the cake. You will instantly develop a crush on yourself.

Spend time with yourself, What do you do to understand your partner? You spend time with her/him. Same goes for you. Take out half an hour from your busy schedule for yourself. Sit down and understand yourself - what do you like, what are your hobbies, strength and weakness, what are you scared of, what you want to achieve and the obstructions and so on. We have gotten so busy that we have stopped listening to our own self. How can you fall in love with someone you don't understand well?

Pamper yourselfGo and buy yourself that expensive dress you have window shopping since months. Celebrate a movie night munching a bag full of popcorn. Treat yourself with a 10 course dinner at your favorite restaurant. Go out on a date wearing a wonderful perfume, mighty sunglasses and that expensive dress that you bought. Sometimes, you gotta spoil yourself!

Travel alone,

Go backpacking to Europe or checkout the culture of India. Conquer Mt Machu Picchu or swim in Lake Tahoe. Go for sky diving or just spend the weekend driving along Pacific Coast Highway. Take selfies, learn a few words from the local language and how to cook their food. This would broaden your horizon and enhance how you think and act. This would increase your confidence and give you a great opportunity learning about you and befriending yourself.

Spend less time on social network Face-book, etc has created a false sense of insecurity, low self esteem and low self confidence in a lot of people, especially the youth. Realize that no-one is as happy or successful or healthy as they appear on Face-book. So grow over it. If it makes you happy, post a photo shopped or crazy image of yourself and get 100s of likes. This is what most of the other people are doing.

Or simply love yourself for what you are The purest form of love is the one where you love a person unconditionally - for what what he/she actually is. Everyone has some flaws, but love is blind my friend! You know all your flaws and insecurities, but realize that this is the best part -  there are no surprises in this relationship. This is the most stable and ever-lasting one. Overlook these and pay attention to your uniqueness, your cute smile, the way you say "Hello" on phone, your dreams and aspiration. If your flaws are bothering you too much stop hating yourself and start working on these. And love yourself for the fact that you are improving and getting better!

So there is no new recipe for loving your own self. It's the same old method that you have been using on others - find yourself attractive, spend some time with yourself and give gifts and surprises. And love yourself for what you are :)